These adorable turkey jars are fun and easy to make Thanksgiving gifts. This craft is a great way for children to practice their attitude of gratitude by writing the reasons they are grateful for the gift recipient on the turkey feathers. It makes an ideal Thanksgiving teacher gift when you have kids write things they are grateful for about their teacher or class on the feathers. Please see below for step-by-step directions, a link to a delicious recipe you can use when filling the jars and a variation of the craft that works well with younger children.
Gratitude Turkey Treat Jar
Inspiration for this craft came from here: http://www.toddlerapproved.com/2011/11/gratitude-turkey-treat-jar.html
- Tape or glue
- Jars with lids – We used glass jars we found on clearance at Michael’s for .99
- Colored cardstock
- Orange & red felt
- Googly eyes
- Draw an outline of a feather onto cardstock in 5 different colors. You can make these as simple or elaborate as you desire. We did a very basic shape.
- Cut out the 5 feathers
- On each of the 5 feathers have your child to write a reason they are grateful for the person they will be gifting the jar to
- Secure the feathers to the back of the jar. We actually used tape for this step, but I think glue would work better because the tape was getting stuck to the lid of our jar.
- Cut a small triangle to be used as the turkey’s nose out of the orange felt
- Cut a small waddle from the red felt
- Use glue to secure the googly eyes, felt nose and felt waddle to the front of the jar so you create the turkey’s face
- Fill the jar with a delicious treat. We used an amazingly easy and delicious 4-step recipe to make pumpkin spice popcorn to fill our jars. Click on the link below to view that recipe: http://www.wineandglue.com/2013/09/pumpkin-spice-popcorn.html
Variation of this craft for younger children:
Since younger children don’t have the ability to write reasons they are grateful onto cardstock feathers, you can make the feathers of their jar using an outline of their little hand. You need the same supplies as the ones listed above, except you omit the 5 pieces of colored cardstock and use one piece of white cardstock instead. Also, we liked the finished look of these jars better when a smaller glass jar was used.
- Trace the outline of your child’s hand onto a piece of white cardstock. Try to have your child stretch out and separate their fingers as much as possible.
- Have your child color the handprint
- Glue or tape the handprint to the back of the jar
- Cut a small triangle to be used as the turkey’s nose out of the orange felt
- Cut a small waddle from the red felt
- Use glue to secure the googly eyes, felt nose and felt waddle to the front of the jar so you create the turkey’s face.
- Fill the jar with a delicious treat. We used Reese’s pieces to fill ours.
The quote we are sharing today provides an important reminder – if we want to cultivate an attitude of gratitude in our children, we must lead by example, living each day with gratitude in our own hearts.
For a printable version of this quote, please click here: Weds Quote- 14
Last week I wrote a post about choosing gratitude in our daily lives. In that post I shared why I feel this is such a valuable practice and today I want to focus on 5 simple ways you can encourage and cultivate an attitude of gratitude within every member of your home.
For a printable version of this quote that you can display in your home, click here: Gratitude Printable
- Work with your child(ren) to identify wants vs. needs. Ask them to help you list out the things they need to feel safe, comfortable and happy. Then take a few minutes to appreciate just how many (if not all) of their needs are currently being met. Continue this lesson by asking everyone to be more conscious about using the word need when talking about a want. This is not intended to discourage your family from wanting things in the future. It is simply intended to encourage gratitude for needs that are met even when wants are not.
- Talk with your child(ren) about all the different ways they can show gratitude. Examples could be saying thank you, saying other nice things, giving hugs and smiles, etc. The next time your child is in a situation where it would be appropriate to express gratitude, instead of prompting them to “say thank you”, which they can end up saying almost robotically, simply ask them to remember to “show gratitude”. This allows them to be genuine and thoughtful when figuring the best way to express their gratitude.
- Create a family “Lucky List”. In a notebook that you dedicate for only this purpose have each family member make a short list of the items they feel lucky to have in their lives. Take turns sharing your lists. Repeat this practice at an interval that works for your family. This activity is especially fun if you take care to note names and dates by each entry because it allows you to read back through old entries and be reminded of all the ways your family has been blessed through the years.
- Help your child(ren) to practice seeing the good. Discuss situations that might feel challenging or disappointing and ask your child to tell you things they could find to be grateful for in those difficult moments. Examples could be; their best friend is absent from school…but now they have the chance to make a new friend, rain cancels their sporting event…but now they get to stay inside and play their favorite board game or their favorite lego creation breaks…but now they get a chance to have fun building it again. Focus on the fact that they can always try to find something good to appreciate in any situation.
- Spend time as a family sharing the reasons you are grateful for each other. This works well as a dinnertime activity. You go around the table and allow each person to state what they appreciate about all the other members of your family. This exercise is beneficial because it provides an opportunity for everyone to take turns expressing gratitude while also allowing the person receiving the compliments to feel grateful for the love and support of their family.
Today’s quote from Melody Beattie reminds us of all the wonderful things we can gain when we keep a grateful heart.
For a printable version of this quote, please click here: Weds Quote- 13
Happy November everyone! The beginning of November means the start of the holiday season. I really love this time of year and one of the things I love most is that it is a time when I feel myself, my family and so many others making an effort to focus on one of the most powerful emotions we have – Gratitude. Gratitude is not simply an emotional response; it is a choice that we make. And as we enter into the holiday season it seems like the ideal time to share a few reasons why I feel it is so valuable to choose to live with gratitude. I will then provide some simple suggestions to help you incorporate a habit of gratitude into your daily life.
As writer Alexis de Tocqueville beautifully described, gratitude is “a habit of the heart.” Simply stated it is recognizing and appreciating all that you have. It is taking moments to acknowledge and breathe these things in while releasing any focus on things you lack.
One of my favorite reasons for making gratitude a habit is that it is an amazing way to reduce stress. When life’s worries about kids, work, health, our world, etc. start to cause stress, a great way to remedy this is with gratitude. In those stressful moments, if we refocus ourselves on what we have to be grateful for, the positive emotions we feel as we count our blessings will help our relaxation response kick in and calm us down.
A grateful heart helps us to feel content and secure in the life we have. Our consumer culture works to get us to feel like we need the newest or next best thing instead of being content and grateful for what is ours already. When we get caught up in materialism we feel exhausting emotions like insecurity and envy. Gratitude acts as our shield against these depleting feelings. By examining our list of things we are grateful for, so often we will find they are things that money cannot buy, i.e. family, friends or health, so it allows us to reflect on how unimportant material items really are. Gratitude shifts our focus away from what we are missing in life and allows us to feel fulfilled and happy with what we already have.
Gratitude can help develop resilience. There are going to be challenging times when things happen that we don’t like or don’t agree with. Choosing to be grateful for these challenges is one of the best ways we can transform these situations and ultimately our lives. By meeting a difficult situation with a feeling of thankfulness and appreciation for the opportunity to grow and learn, the negativity will be unable to hold us down for long. This transforms gratitude into a pro-active coping skill that helps us to grow instead of fall-apart in times of stress.
Another important reason to choose to live with gratitude is that it allows us to live more fully in the present moment. Remaining in the present moment can be a difficult thing to do. It is so easy to find ourselves worried about what the future may hold or wrapped up in what we could have done differently in the past. But when we choose to be grateful we automatically bring ourselves into the present moment. We do this by appreciating all that we have right now. Our past becomes something that brought us to all the things we are grateful for today, so there is no need to waste energy on what could have been different. Our future becomes an opportunity to greet whatever blessings or challenges come our way with a grateful heart so there is no need to fear what may be. With gratitude we can settle into the present moment to see and enjoy what is happening right now.
A sense of gratitude is something that can take time to develop and there is no better time than the holidays to devote some extra energy to this practice. Below are some simple ways to encourage appreciation and expand the capacity for gratitude during all times of life.
- Find time each day to pause and ask what it is that you are grateful for. You can do this activity on your own by writing the items in a gratitude journal or you can do it with a group by going around the dinner table or taking turns while together in the car and asking everyone to share what they are grateful for.
- Try to imagine losing some of the things that you can easily take for granted in life like your home, your refrigerator, the ability to walk or to hear. Then imagine how you would feel to get these things back. Recognize the gratefulness you would feel in that situation and try to feel it for those things now.
- Challenge yourself to refrain from complaining or criticizing for a week. When the week is over notice the amount of energy you previously spent on negative thoughts and actions. Move forward enjoying the room you have created for additional positive and grateful thoughts.
- If you find yourself in a difficult situation that you are struggling to see the good in, ask yourself, “When I look back on this what will I be grateful for?”
- Give yourself at least one compliment daily. Really appreciate that aspect about yourself.
- Tell others why you are grateful for them. This is wonderful to do with your kids or your partner. Not only is it another opportunity for you to express gratitude, but it is an opportunity to remind those we love what they have to be grateful for about themselves.
In our post Tuesday we touched on the importance of teaching children to develop a positive attitude towards change. So today, for Slow Down and Share Sunday, we have a quote and some discussion points that can be used to initiate conversation with children about change.
For a printable version of this quote, please click here: Sunday Quote 6
- Share with your child(ren) that palm trees are able to survive hurricane strength winds that can uproot or break other kinds of trees. Ask them to guess why this might be. Then explain that the reason for this is because when powerful winds are blowing palm trees they don’t remain straight up. Instead they are flexible and bend, almost to the ground sometimes, and this is what helps them to survive.
- Talk to them about about a time you were confronted by change and, like a palm tree, chose to bend instead of break. Try to keep your example basic and at their level of understanding. For instance, with a very young child you could use the idea of going to get ice cream and the store being out of your favorite flavor. Instead of getting mad and throwing a fit and leaving with no ice cream, you instead remained flexible and selected a different flavor so you still got a treat to enjoy. For an older child you might share about being at recess and having your best friend suddenly decide they don’t like to play the game you two usually play together. Instead of getting frustrated about your friend’s opinion or abandoning a game you really loved, you chose to bend a little and tell them you would try a new game for one day if you could return to the game you usually play tomorrow. Then you ended up trying a new activity you really enjoyed and you still let your friend know it was important to you to play your favorite game another time.
- Give them some different examples of scenarios where they might experience unexpected change and ask them to share what might happen if they chose to stand stiff and inflexible. You could follow that by asking how they could bend and be flexible in those same scenarios. Examples could be the following; a play date where their friend doesn’t want to play the same things they want, going to a resturant that doesn’t have their favorite food they like to order, finding out they have a substitute or new teacher at school or learning that there were going to be new rules at home.
- After you talk with your child(ren) about this concept, whenever you feel them getting flustered when confronted by change you can simply remind them “Maybe we should try to bend a little…so we don’t break…just like a palm tree.”
Today I have an amazing Fall-inspired recipe to share with you. This treat makes a perfect Friday Favorite because my daughter loves to make muffins and these are currently her most favorite mini muffins to bake. They are simple, absolutely delicious and whenever they are baking in the oven they make your whole house smell wonderfully Fall-filled :-).
She found the recipe for these muffins on one of our favorite food blogs – Sally’s Baking Addiction. Since we did not adapt the recipe at all, please click over to Sally’s site for the list of ingredients and printable version of the recipe.
The beginning of a new season always provides a wonderful opportunity for me to engage my daughters in discussions about change. I have found that a great way to do this is through fun and age appropriate activities that get us out in nature and talking about all the changes we see around us.
This year, as fall approached, I set out to look for a simple nature craft and came across this Fall Leaves Butterfly Craft here: http://www.notimeforflashcards.com/2009/08/fall-butterfly-craft.html. I loved that this craft was easy, adorable and convenient!
Below I have laid out a supplies list and simple step-by-step instructions for completing this craft. I also have provided a few ideas for initiating conversation on the cycle of seasons and change that you could use with your child(ren) as they work to complete this craft.
- Crayons or markers
- Fall leaves
- Gather the first four supplies listed above.
- Then set out on a nature walk to collect two to four leaves per child.
- Clip the stems off the leaves and set aside.
- It is now time to craft the butterfly. First, draw a butterfly body on your cardboard.
- Next, have your children color in the body and add eyes and a mouth.
- You may want to help younger children by providing them the outline for this step.
- The body is now ready to be cut out.
- Once the body is cut out you will want to have your child flip the butterfly body over and tape the leaves (wings) and stems (antennas) to the back.
- If you want a double leaf layer look (like my younger daughter created) simply layer two leaves on top of each other and tape them down.
- Your butterfly is now complete!
Possible discussion starters:
- While you are outside gathering the fall leaves engage your child’s senses by asking them what they notice about the leaves, trees and weather. Some simple questions you could ask are:
- Do you notice anything different about the leaves? If so, what? What color are the leaves? Are they all the same colors? Why do you think that is?
- What do you notice about the amount of leaves on the trees?
- How does it sound to jump in a pile of leaves?
- How does the weather feel today? Does it feel warmer or cooler compared to the last few weeks?
- Take a moment to discuss the different seasons we have. Ask them questions like:
- What season is it right now? What are all the different seasons we have? Which one came before and after the season we are in right now?
- Have your child consider what they think would happen if we didn’t have seasons. Ask them what they think things would be like if it was always hot and sunny…or cold and wet/snowy. Spend a few moments helping them to see the effect it would have on our earth if the seasons never changed.
- Ask them to name other things that change. Gently point out that there are always things changing around us. Have them explain why they think it is important to experience change.
For this Well-being Wednesday we are sharing a quote that reminds us to embrace change and be present as we navigate through the ever changing seasons of life.
For a printable version of this quote, please click here: Weds Quote- 12
The beginning of October is a time I have always felt confronted by change. It’s the time of year when summer gets left behind and fall brings with it change to the trees, weather, baking ingredients, stores, scents, and amount of sun I encounter each day. It greets me with a push to revise my pace of life as I begin a three month period where my already hectic schedule attempts to accommodate several important family birthdays and a few major holidays. And as I feel the changes confronting me now, I know it is a good time to reflect on the importance of having an open and accepting attitude towards change. This is something that can be difficult for me, so I know this reflection is not only valuable for me as a person, but also as a mother, because there is much my children can learn by watching how I react to change.
The most important thing to remember is that change is inevitable. No matter what we do we can’t make it stop happening. Of course we can resist it, but when we spend time resisting we end up addressing change from a place of survival or reaction and that can feel stressful. When we allow ourselves to accept that change is a natural and necessary part of life it eliminates the need to resist it.
It is when we stop resisting that we can better examine our attitude towards change. We can try to simply acknowledge it. The basic act of being aware that change is constantly happening in our life is important. Things can and will be different then they are right now. Once we acknowledge this we can move towards learning to accept change and allowing it to unfold. Having an acceptance helps us to deal with change much more effectively. When we accept what is we can move forward more easily and avoid feeling stuck.
After acknowledging and accepting change we can move towards embracing it. When we embrace change consciously we may even find ourselves enjoying it. It is by embracing that we are provided the opportunity to discover and appreciate the lessons that there are to be found in times of change.
If you, like me, can struggle to have a positive attitude towards change and are hoping to work on that, the beautiful truth is that life gives us endless chances to react to change. There are new and evolving moments all around us every day that can be used as our next chance to calmly and openly embrace whatever is thrown our way. And as we work to achieve a positive outlook during times of change we are blessing the children in our lives by teaching them to release negative attitudes toward change now, while they are still young, and their opinions and outlooks are not fully engrained.
And now, in this season of change, let’s intend to have love and compassion for ourselves as we navigate both the natural and unexpected changes that life offers us. It isn’t easy. But if we can acknowledge, accept and embrace change we can reduce our stress and maintain a more positive attitude towards it. It is this, in turn, that will allow us to freely and calmly move through the changing seasons of life.